Dear Auntie Lucy,

I hope you can help me as I really don’t know where to turn to. I am a 25 year old Newry man and have been in a happy relationship for over 6 years with my boyfriend who is 32. The problem is that recently he caught me naked in our bed with his 18 year old brother who is a real hot hunk.

I think that trust is all important in a relationship and can’t understand that he won’t believe me when I explained that it was all perfectly innocent (I was helping his brother practice for a part he is playing in a up-coming amateur dramatic production.) I think he is being really catty and unreasonable. What should I do?

Yours,
Trevor Hill.

Dear Aunt Lucy,

Need your help urgently! I am a 24 year old married man. There is a guy at work that I really fancy who I know is gay because we kissed at this years Christmas Pary. He wants to see me again. What should I do but I really fancy this guy.

Dear Aunt Lucy,

I just don’t know what to do with myself.I just don’t know what to do with myself..I am a 30 something year old gay man,fairly sorted and want a partner..for life..not just for Christmas.

I’ve tried a few sites and he’s not there.I’ve tried the new Chanel number “l’eau d’Esperation” with no success.I’m just not willing to sleep around for sleeping arounds sake. My best mate says that for every left foot there is a right but how can I find my right if I’ve 2 left feet.

Yours Jock Strappe